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DEAR SELLER
Real Estate Love Letters from Los Angeles

Arriving September 2018




Edited by Teena Apeles
Foreword by D. J. Waldie
Principal photography by Alexandra Weiss

"Buying and selling houses, especially in the L.A. market, can be exciting, but also complicated, stressful, and messy, and it's a privilege that many people don't have." —Daria, contributor


Shopping for a home in Los Angeles? It’s a sellers’ market, where real estate is in high demand and no shortage of money is thrown sellers’ way. It’s competitive, it’s fierce, but it’s not always the highest bidder who comes out on top. 

 

Dear Seller: Real Estate Love Letters from Los Angeles features memorable letters by those who attempted to win the hearts of home sellers with their words and stories in order to win the bidding war for the home of their dreams.


Each letter paints a portrait of its author—her or his family, background, and values (economic and personal), as well as future aspirations—using social capital as well as actual capital in the effort to be selected. Here narrative becomes the currency. 


Our aim with this collection is to share the diverse voices of everyday Angelenos writing from the heart (versus simply their bank accounts), while also offering a colorful look at the interesting architecture of the city—and a peek at what lies beyond our neighbors' doors.


Read an excerpt from the first story.


Special thanks to the Department of Cultural Affairs, City of Los Angeles, and Center for Cultural Innovation's Creative Economic Development Fund for supporting this endeavor. A portion of the proceeds from the book will go to an organization that works to end homelessness in Los Angeles. 


House proof courtesy of Lili N. Barsha and permissions courtesy Dion Neutra, Architect © and Richard and Dion Neutra Papers, Department of Special Collections, Charles E. Young Research Library, UCLA.


Wet Moon (Tucson) painting, 2017, courtesy of Christine Frerichs



AN EXCERPT

A Member of Booby Brigade Introduced Us

By TOM as told to the editor

Location East Hollywood
Listed January 2010

My wife, Grace, was on this email list for new mothers called “Booby Brigade.” A member posted a message in January 2010 saying that she lived in the East Hollywood area and the elderly woman who lived in the house next door to them had just died. The Booby Brigade member was the mother of two-year-old twin boys and wanted to get a family with kids into the house instead of a developer who’d tear it down and turn it into an apartment building. She extended an offer to introduce anyone who was interested in the house to the woman’s kids.


We had just had our son, Ben, about a year earlier. Grace and I didn’t really know at the time that we were in the market to buy a house. I had received some money after my father’s death, but it was clearly not enough to buy a home in Los Angeles, so we hadn’t even started thinking about what to do with it. But then we learned of this house.


The woman on Booby Brigade introduced us to Debra, the daughter of Katherine, who had bought the house in 1963 and raised her eight kids there. When she died in December, most of the children lived out of state, and having to deal with her house, which was in disrepair, was a hardship for them.


When I walked through the house, I felt like I had died and gone to heaven. I had always dreamed of finding a real fixer-upper, a once-beautiful house that had been neglected but not ruined, that could be restored to its original beauty. And this was that house. I wanted it badly, and though Grace couldn’t see the beauty in it, I did, and she was willing to go along with me. But I felt the money I had to offer, $400,000, was not enough for a house of this size—two stories and three bedrooms—and possibly even insulting to suggest.


I spoke with some other people who had knowledge of L.A. real estate, and they agreed that it wasn’t nearly enough, that the siblings would have already received and rejected offers like that. I brooded over it for a day, and then I figured I had nothing to lose, so I just sat down and wrote a letter.

December 2, 2009


Dear Debra:


It was a pleasure meeting you on Monday; thank you so much for spending time with us, and for letting us spend time in the house.


This letter is sort of a cross between an offer and an explanation. Grace and I are neophytes to the world of Los Angeles real estate; I suspect any real estate professional would say what I’m doing here is entirely the wrong thing to do. But somehow this seems like the best thing to do under the circumstances.


I mentioned when we spoke that I received a sum of money on my father’s death in October, and that this amount is what I have to work with when buying a house. I’m going to break all rules of bargaining here and just tell you outright that the amount I have is $400,000. I don’t have much beyond that; the costs of repairing and restoring the house would come out of my earnings and personal savings. So as far as actual purchasing power goes, $400k is the range I’m in.


This is of course much less than a real estate agent will tell you the house will sell for on the open market. And that is a powerful argument. But I feel I have a few good arguments on my side:


1) You would not be required to spend the time and money necessary to bring the house up to code.


2) You would not have to bear the expense of hiring a broker. And I’m prepared to pay all legal and title fees involved in the sale. In essence, you would not have to spend another cent on the house from this point forward.


3) Because I can pay cash, the transaction would happen very quickly. There would be no delays related to financing.


4) As the saying goes, a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. The real estate market is very unstable right now, and many houses do not sell for what realtors believe is the market rate. It is in a realtor’s interest to inflate prices; setting a high price is more important to him than how long it might take to sell a house. So while it is certainly possible you could get more than this for the house, it is also possible that it would be some time before that happens, and before you regain the money you would have spent bringing the house up to code.


5) This has no actual value to you of course—the value is only sentimental—but Grace, Ben, and I will live in the house, and we intend to treat it very well. Many—perhaps most—people buying houses in Los Angeles right now are speculators looking to turn a profit in one way or another. Houses suffer when speculators flip them, and so do the neighborhoods around them. Grace and I want a home, and we believe the house where you grew up would be a wonderful place for Ben to grow up. We want to restore the house to the way it once was, and in doing so we will both respect the house, and benefit the neighborhood around it.


So the question is, are we even within the realm of consideration? I hope this letter can serve as a conversation starter for you and the other Trustees; if the amount were agreeable—or at least close enough that you feel we can talk further about it—I could start looking for a real estate attorney and an escrow company, and get to work on drafting an initial offer that would be legally valid. If on the other hand the amount is nowhere close to what you are willing to accept, I of course fully understand, and we can both turn our attention to other matters.


Thanks again for all your time and kindness thus far. If you have any questions feel free to call or drop me an email anytime.


Yours,


Tom E—


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